If any members are thinking about towing with a Tesla please be aware that on my November 2022 model Y Tesla have disconnected (by design) pins 9 to 12 in the 13 pin towing electrics. This is apparently not limited to just my Tesla. It means you can’t have any auxiliary power to your trailer and therefore can’t operate devices such as trailer stability devices. Being Tesla charged me for the installation of a tow-bar and 13 pin towing electrics it was somewhat annoying.
I have rejected the car and Tesla have agreed to purchase the car back from me for the full purchase price. However it’s been an incredibly stressful process and their customer service has been woeful. If you want to tow with an EV my advice would be purchase anything but a Tesla.